Reno Omokri, a well-known author and former assistant to former President Goodluck Jonathan, has shared wise counsel for husbands handling conflict with their spouses on his official Twitter page. “As a husband, you are not punishing your wife when you keep malice toward her, ignore her, deny her conjugal rights, reject her food, and stop spending time at home or providing companionship,” he stated in a tweet. Actually, you’re teaching her how to be independent. You are preparing her to live independently of you.” CONTINUE FULL READING>>>>>
He further warned that persisting with such actions could lead to unintended consequences, stating, “And if you keep doing this over time, one day, she will graduate from your school, and you will cease to have meaning in her life.” Omokri reminded husbands of the inevitable aging process and the increasing reliance on spousal support, asserting that children are likelier to provide support to their mothers than fathers.
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In response to these insights, Omokri urged husbands to prioritize open communication and dialogue when faced with marital conflicts. He advocated for working through issues collaboratively, stating, “So, instead of teaching her to live without you, talk to her when she offends you and work things out.” CONTINUE FULL READING>>>>>
This is a good talk to follow.I agreed with you sir,because looking at marrital conflicts these days,if you keep away from your wife someone outside is waiting to make her happy.
Is the truth sir,but it’s really worrisome when most men still ignore this real truth about life. Thanks for cracking that nut, God bless
This is true bro.just in this mood now for days with my wife.i have spoken to her before,left her food and don’t eat.But I have to take to This advice.Thanks bro!
Thanks for the teaching, but in a situation that my wife keep prolong malice and all efforts to reconcile and connect with her fails. It has become the practice that I as husband will always beg for reconciliation. Is she not keep me out? I guess that this teaching should be balanced, not to always be in favor of women. Men also have feelings and we bear a lot. If it works for one may not be working for the other person. For past 19 years, I have always been the offender, my wife always right, I am the evil of the home who cannot think right before my wife. I will beg her and she would embarrass me before our grown children. Now you are teaching that I should not keep malice but she kept malice a lot, should I keep enduring sir? Pls can I call you my number is 08038304410
I think it is a threat that when the man is keeping malice the woman would go out. When the woman is already avoiding the man, has no respect for the man, she is already relating with another man, and the man is so faithful and God fearing what about that? Pls balance this teaching, look at the bother sides please.
This very matter is both sides. If it happened to the woman, the same the man will do, if happened to the man the same the woman will do. So the matter is both sides. Thanks.
At times when the problem is getting too tough, ur advice might not work. And even looking at ur statement u ar judging the matter the way ur wife behave and not considering other peoples home.