GIST: Newlywed wife calls marriage hard, complains about excessive intimacy

A newlywed wife has openly shared her struggles with the demands of marriage, particularly highlighting the challenges she faces due to the constant and excessive intimacy expected by her husband. In her post, she expressed how she feels overwhelmed by the pressure of always being available for intimacy, regardless of her own emotional or physical state.CONTINUE FULL READING>>>>>

She further revealed that her husband reacts negatively whenever she declines his advances, often becoming upset and refusing to talk to her for the rest of the day. This reaction has caused her to feel frustrated and exhausted by the constant cycle of demands and expectations, making her reflect on the reality of marriage in a way she hadn’t anticipated.

Newlywed wife says marriage is hard.

The post, which has since gone viral, was shared on the social media platform X, formerly known as Twitter, and has generated significant attention. In her statement, the woman explained that her body has had no rest since her marriage, noting that even if she is not in the mood or is unwell, her husband’s desires must come first. She expressed how difficult it is to meet the expectations of her spouse, despite her own personal feelings or condition.

Her exact words were: “Since I got married, my body hasn’t had any rest. When you say no, they frown and won’t talk to you all day. But the day you say yes, you’ll suddenly become the sweetest mango on the tree.”

She continued, acknowledging the sweetness of marriage but stressing the physical and emotional challenges that come with the constant intimacy: “Marriage is sweet, but this constant knacking is one of the hardest parts. Whether you’re well or not, in the mood or not, as long as ‘boss’ is in the mood, you’ll have to please him.”

The woman’s comments about marriage and the pressures of intimacy were also shared in a video that has been circulating online. As the video gained traction, it quickly sparked a wide range of reactions from people, with some expressing concern while others shared their own opinions about her situation.

See some reactions below:

@Slanddi: “Na man wey marry her I pity, Toto wey no rest before marriage, abi she take marriage like Toto retirement?”

Ms. Sweet Soul the Writer): “Omo, what won’t people do for clout on social media. People be acting like they fell from trees. If you lack self-respect, at least respect your husband & family members & keep somethings private. Eh.”

@ArakiJohn3: “Calm down, U will soon be begging for it and U will understand. U are obviously new in the marriage. When one hot babe twist waist 2X for oga, that time, U don drop 2 or 3, before oga look Ur side, U go set 3 months appointment n begging.”

@curator_hub: “Now someone has finally come out to speak for the voiceless.”

@ozmoneyyy: “Every gender get wetin dem dey go through men pocket too never rest.”

@sulucious: “No worry, your husband will soon tire and you’ll be the begging.”

@Sasky_Mali: “Who dey marry all this kind one sef. Must you do make up, set ring light, wear dress, to talk about your marital sex life??”CONTINUE FULL READING>>>>>